Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Blessing day










I'll post pictures later, but thought I'd at least post what John Hiram Wilkerson wrote for baby John Hiram Wilkerson:

John Hiram

Cold Decembers and fragile fallen snows cover the earth in silent white and its midnight stillness humbly purifies the chill of winter. In a month filled with glittery presents adorned by foil bows and satin ribbons meant somehow to attest to the divinity of mankind, a more perfect reminder of origin and belonging was received. As ancients millennia before declared to a struggling world, a tiny child, John, quietly professes the graciousness of God.

For now, there are almost-smiles and small fingers curled in trust around those of family who love him. Under dancing Christmas lights and carols of togetherness, we gather around him. It's an indescribable thing to hold something perfect; a tangible connection to an eternity that seems so distant from what we know. We imagine for him, with him. We wonder, asking silent, impossible questions and pleading with the universe for it to recognize what has happened within our hands; within our hearts.

Generations pass and renew themselves in cacophonous flashes of emotion. But, life is never as tenuous as it seems in its darkest places, because in flesh and blood, spirit and devotion we are eternally tethered one to another. He reminds us of our connections to a past that has faith in our imperfect creation of the future. Within a small, December child born at the celebration of an exalted brother, are the gentle echoes of thousands of voices, infinitely bound.

In his own silent stillness, maintained under eyelids closed tightly to the world that awaits him, he dreams. It's a world that is imperfect and wounded, hopeful and faltering, terrifying and infinitely rapturously beautiful. It's a world meant to show that he is loved, and thought upon, and hoped for. And because even the scariest parts of life are softened by the ephemeral tendrils of love and unquestioned acceptance, he will forever remind us that we are blessed with the graces of a father who loves and could offer no gift more perfect than this.








Thursday, July 8, 2010

Sibling Haircuts




Why is it that just about every family I can think of has had this happen? Sadly, I guess it was our turn... Garrison tells me that Lorelei asked him to do it, and she agreed that she did. Funny thing, though, she just told us recently that she did not want to cut her long hair. Anyway, this afternoon Garrison comes to me saying, "Mom, look at Lorelei's dragon wing I made". I was not very happy and Garrison almost looked puzzled, to be honest, and said something to the effect that Lorelei was just fine because he did not cut her-- he was being "very careful". Thankfully it's not quite as bad as it looked although there are a few strands on top that are pretty short. In case you can't tell, she had buns today but had pulled on them before Garrison took a few chunks out of both sides with the kitchen scissors.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Things that make me laugh

The other day we were in the car just getting to Wal-Mart and Garrison was bugging Lorelei and may have hit her, although I'm not sure. I make him say 3 things (I'm sorry, I won't do it again, and I love you) almost all of the time and we proceeded to go through them but stopped short when he said he was sorry and his voice told me that he wasn't sorry one bit. I said "Say it like you mean it". He whispered back "it like you mean it" with a smurk on his face and I thought that was what he said but I said back "no, say it like you mean it" to which he replied again "IT LIKE YOU MEAN IT" very loud and slow. At this point I probably should have not laughed but I couldn't help it. I laughed pretty hard and so did they.

Garrison to dad last week: "Sometimes it's okay to lie... like when you're saying "sorry" ". (WHAT?!)

Garrison yelling in pain at me after he trips over the vacuum, stubbing his toes: "Mom, I wouldn't have done that if you'd put your vacuum away after you used it!" (He's remembering what I say to him after I trip over his toys)

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Announcing...(Finally) John Hiram Wilkerson!!!

After inducing labor at around 7 a.m. I got my epidural and then took a good nap until around 11:30 a.m. when I could feel some pressure. I had the best labor of all 3 children with him because it was the first time the epidural worked to its full extent (both left and right sides). It was great! I did break my tailbone again just as I had when Garrison and Lorelei were born but I can't complain given the fact that I have been blessed with 3 beautiful babies. Anyway, we sure love our newest addition, and he is the best Christmas present I've ever received. He was born at 12:38 p.m. on December 22, 2009, was 21 inches long, and weighed 7 pounds 3 ounces.




Christmas 2009











(Late) Merry Christmas! I hope you all had a great one! Here are a few photos:

First Real Snow

Marcus and Garrison sledding.
Garrison's snow angel.

Lorelei's meltdown.


Our first real snow of this winter came I think on January 7th, and Garrison was sure ready to go sledding. We didn't (still don't) know a good place to go, but Marcus improvised and sledding down our driveway toward the street (not usually a good idea) turned out pretty well. Thankfully, Garrison stopped short of the street each time and also we live on a street that is far from busy. It was a BITTER day and so I only took a couple pictures . Garrison loved it outside, Marcus was out there only because he wanted to be a good daddy, and Lorelei made it about 30 seconds before the bitter cold got to her and she wanted back inside. After making sure she really didn't want to be outside, I took off her boots, gloves, hat, coat, and snowsuit. When I decided to go outside to take a few pictures she wanted to go outside with me again but it was too late. I wasn't about to put all of that clothing on her again and she had a meltdown.




Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Lorelei's new words

So Lorelei, after picking out and putting on clothes one morning, said, "I'm so darling". I didn't realize that I said "darling", but now I've realized that I do! A few days after getting this video, I caught her saying "cutie pie" (the next video). Hope you enjoy these videos as much as I do!!!